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PROMISCUITY is intimacy 1st and commitment 2nd

PURITY is commitment 1st and intimacy 2nd

Promiscuity                                     

DESPERATION

Promiscuity begins with Desperation from within that begins because you are not close with God. You feel that you have an emptiness inside that you so wrongly decide that another person can fulfill. But in actuality, it’s God that you are missing.

INFATUATION

Because you have chosen a person to fill this void, you become Infatuated with them and want to build a Whole New World with them, like Aladdin… And in doing so, you want to surround yourself with this one person, and lose all who was close to you.

 ISOLATION

This leads to Isolation- you have chosen to only be surrounded by THEM! You must have a life and follow your own guidelines for your own life. You cannot worship this person, for that place is for God!

COMSUMPTION

Because you are now only surrounded by one person’s company, you are both now Consuming each other… In everything! You are taking each other’s time, money, company, advice, everything! You are following each other in every way possible. This is not right because you cannot just have one person in your life, no matter how much they mean to you, they cannot fulfill everything you need in your life.

CONCESSION

Concession is the final place you will be at. You will both be so into each other that this is all you have. You will start to argue and get into many disputes over time, and this is the only thing that is possible because you no longer have anything else. You gave up everything for each other. This is where, if living in promiscuity, you would say, “Well, we’re already here, so we might as well get married.”

Purity

DEPENDANCE

You will be Dependant if you create your life as an individual. If you are close with God, and have set your own rules and boundaries for yourself. This is the foundation to your beliefs. It is the most important step in being pure. This will lead you to the path to being so.

INTEREST

You will start to develop Interest in the person you are dating because you want to see what they are like. If you think you’re going to spend your life with someone, you must ask questions about their personality, about their religious views. If you spend your life with someone, you must make sure you can live with the qualities they have, and make sure that you really enjoy how they live, act or feel about things.

INVITATION

When you are comfortable with this person, you will want to Invite them to share the life you have. You start wanting them to meet your friends, and family. This is when you bring them to share your life with you, and you have made the decision that “Hey, I want to see how they are around the people I love.”

CONTRIBUTION

If you believe they fit into your life well, and share your life with you well, rather than take you away from the life you have, then you guys are able to Contribute to each other. They give to you, and you also give to them. You are helping them grow as an individual, and they are helping you as well. This is the stage where you believe you will give anything for them if it makes them happy. You want to give to them.

CREATION

This leads to Creation. This is the step you can take when you are positive you can share your life with this person. You want to create a new life with them, and you have an intent to spend all of your days with them. Marriage should be special, and this is where intimacy should begin because you have already committed yourself to them.